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Hello Again
Read my commitment to writing again for Living Amongst Humans.
I discuss the hiatus, my return, and what to expect from me in the future.
I will continue to focus on Autism, bringing into the conversation what I have learned over the years while living amongst humans.
Oct 83 min read


Infographic - The Autism Epidemic
Autism is often identified as an epidemic. This graphic looks at the reality behind the autism epidemic and not just the hype.
Oct 51 min read


A Conversation with a Friend
Jim, I just finished reading "Letting Him Out." I'm sorry you've suffered for decades, protecting that little autistic boy inside you. But I'm glad you're considering letting him out of that walled prison you've kept him in all these years. I like knowing the real you.
Thank you, but I don't get enough credit for how well I've done without him. I've accomplished a lot — so much that people don't recognize the sacrifices I've made. They can't see my deep scars. It is so tirin
Mar 19, 20175 min read


What a Shame
I have cursed myself, as a matter of survival. As a child, walking past a table of classmates in the cafeteria, and hearing their mocking laughter, I avoided emotional collapse only by — paradoxically — supporting the claims of my tormentors. I distracted myself from their words by doubling down with internal, vile self-indictment. Somehow my uncontrollable mind screams was able to mask the external cruelty.
Dec 19, 20166 min read


The Passing of a Generation
Passing had a bad rap. The autistic survivors of lost generations need a different message: be proud. You passed to survive.
Sep 5, 20165 min read


A Mind Apart
As a child, I needed three skills to effectively communicate with humans. First was the physical capacity to vocalize. Check. The next requirement was a reasonable vocabulary. Roger. The last ability was putting my voice together with the right language to express myself. Two out of three ain’t bad.
Aug 25, 20166 min read


Infographic - Off the Spectrum
The use of the term “Autism Spectrum” is misleading. It gives the impression that there is a single scale by which you can classify every Autistic person. This infographic shows the disorder of the Autistic Spectrum.
Aug 7, 20161 min read


Why I Write
Huillo is a lucky boy. Luis is a lucky dad. And I am lucky my words brought them to me. #todossomoshuillo
Jun 10, 20161 min read


I Have of Late
I started writing a year ago, reaching tens of thousands, with hundreds of kind comments, exploring autism and my brand of it. I've learned a lot and have been thrilled to learn I've enriched others. I owe an explanation to those who have gracefully waited for more. Know that I haven't stopped.
May 29, 20166 min read


Infographic - What Causes Autism?
People have been searching for the cause of autism for decades.
Sep 5, 20151 min read


Mixed Doubles
A neurodiverse relationship can be challenging. And rewarding. Can a man struggling to find himself discover extra-ordinary love in a world of humans?
Aug 30, 20155 min read


Infographic - The Autistic Child
Compare the clinical or parental viewpoint on the left, used to diagnose a child with a particular disorder, with the right side which represents the innate characteristics of the child, as seen from the inside. There is great value in early diagnosis. Treatment is an essential element of care and improves the lives of many autistic children, but that doesn’t change who they are.
Jul 31, 20151 min read


Making Sense
It was 1971. It was nearly four decades before I knew I was autistic. It was 25 years before soccer moms. It was the year, on one particular day, I discovered magic inside my brain.
Jul 30, 20156 min read


Now Open to the Public!
There must be a reason why a private person would risk this exposure. Take an autistic trip through physical pain, vulnerability and the joy of success.
Jul 22, 20154 min read


Tune That Name
The quickest way to insult a person is by intentionally using the wrong name. The same applies to names for groups of people. It is common for parents of autistic children to say that their child has autism. They believe in putting the person first (a "person with autism") rather than leading with the ailment. There are parents who would condemn me for calling their children autistic. I'm not. I'm talking about me. Calling me a person with autism contradicts my reality. Her
Jul 15, 20153 min read


Are You Listening?
An autistic person compensates for the lack of natural social processing built into the brain
Jun 20, 20153 min read


The Seventy Percent Solution
Derived from unnamed by ClkerFreeVectorImages, used under CC0 I am wrong 70% of the time. Don't ask me how I know it is 70%. I recognize numbers the way you recognize faces—a matter of familiarity and unconscious association, not calculation. I have a holistic under-standing that 70% of all the decisions I make are incorrect. Even when I am not paying attention, my brain is keeping track. Just as you might say, "Oh, that's Arnold. He changed his eyeglasses." I will tell myse
Jun 16, 20154 min read


Look to the Autistics
The autistic brain is not malformed nor diseased. It isn’t something to be pitied or corrected. Our brains just happen to be different from yours. That doesn’t make the autistic brain wrong. It does, however, make it somewhat incompatible with a world, a society, constructed by human brains.
May 31, 20155 min read


Letting Him Out
I had a boy nobody knew about: a feeble autistic child. I was barely an adult myself when I put him away. I had no options. And I told no one what I did.
May 30, 20156 min read


They’ll Know He’s a Phony
If you're autistic, talking to humans is a bit of a magic trick.
When I was a child, I had yet to learn that trick. In fact, I didn't yet know that I was autistic. Talking to humans was a mystery to me, as was so much else in life. I was a frustrated quiet child.
May 30, 20153 min read
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